Simpletons only learn the hard way; but the wise learn by listening. Proverbs 21:11 MSG
The leader has to have all the answers.
That’s a leadership myth I used to believe. In fact, it scared me to death and kept me from leading for many years. I thought the only way people would follow is if I had all the answers (and I knew I did not have them).
Funny thing is: that’s exactly opposite of what people want. People want someone who will allow them to give feedback and make other suggestions. Most people won’t follow a know-it-all.
The leadership truth: Someone has to ultimately make the decision. But the wisest decisions are made after listening to others.
4 Steps To Making More Wise Decisions:
1) Surround yourself with people smarter than you – don’t be the smartest person you know. Get people around you that love Jesus, love you, and not afraid to push back.
2) Ask questions – when you’re surrounded with smart people, ask them questions. Pick their brains. That’s what they are there for. They want to be included in the decision-making process.
3) Listen – After you ask questions, actually listen to what they are saying. This falls on the leader. The leader has to be open to learning from others.
Obviously, that is from a team-oriented situation.
4) The greatest person a leader can listen to is the Holy Spirit. Like Perry Noble says:
“Leadership is listening to God and doing what He says.”
There’s no way to make wise decisions without hearing from God. Sometimes He’ll make it clear to us through the Holy Spirit or scripture, but other times He’ll use those around us to help in our decision-making process (as described above). Without consulting Him, we may get lucky every now and then, but usually we end up learning the hard way just like the verse says.
Leaders are learners. And the Bible says we can learn a lot just by listening. This is definitely something I’m praying over for God to help me and you become a better leader.